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                By Paul G. Donohue, M.D. 
                Bypass Surgery
                Must Often be Repeated 
                DEAR DR. DONOHUE:
                In 1995 I underwent quadruple heart bypass
                surgery. Now, 11 years later, an angiogram was
                taken and I was told that the grafts are not
                functioning well. A vein from my left leg was
                used for the grafts. As a result, a second bypass
                appears to be imminent. Is this a common
                occurrence? -- I.C. 
                ANSWER: Heart
                artery grafts are an amazing medical triumph.
                They save lives. They prevent heart attacks. They
                bring blood to a blood-starved heart. However,
                they dont cure the underlying processes
                that clog blood vessels. Those processes are
                atherosclerosis -- artery hardening -- and artery
                blockage with cholesterol, fat and other
                material. 
                Diet, exercise,
                weight loss, and cholesterol and blood pressure
                control are things over which people have control
                and which can keep arteries free of obstructing
                buildup. Genes, however, are something we cannot
                control. And their influence on artery hardening
                goes on. They also influence buildup in grafts. 
                In about 10 years
                after bypass surgery, plaque -- the obstructing
                buildup on artery walls -- greatly affects the
                flow of blood through many grafts. The degree to
                which it obstructs blood flow depends on how much
                people have done on their own to prevent plaque
                formation and how much influence their genes have
                on plaque buildup. It also depends on the kind of
                grafts used. Artery grafts resist plaque buildup
                better than vein grafts, but they are not always
                possible. 
                You are not
                unique. Repeat bypass surgery is relatively
                common. 
                LETTERS
                from  
                a
                SELF-MADE  
                MERCHANT  
                to his
                SON. 
                by George Horace
                Lorimer 
                First
                published October, 1902 
                Being the Letters written by John Graham, Head
                of the House of Graham & Company,
                Pork-Packers in Chicago, familiarly known on
                Change as "Old Gorgon Graham," to
                his Son, Pierrepont, facetiously known to his
                intimates as "Piggy." 
                No.2 
                FROM John Graham,
                at the Union Stock Yards in Chicago, to his son,
                Pierrepont, at Harvard University.  
                Mr. Pierreponts expense
                account has just passed under his fathers
                eye, and has furnished him with a text for some
                plain particularities. 
                II 
                Chicago, May 4,
                198_ 
                Dear Pierrepont:
                The cashier has just handed me your expense
                account for the month, and it fairly makes a
                fellow hump-shouldered to look it over. When I
                told you that I wished you to get a liberal
                education, I didnt mean that I wanted to
                buy Cambridge. Of course the bills wont
                break me, but they will break you unless you are
                very, very careful. 
                I have noticed for
                the last two years that your accounts have been
                growing heavier every month, but I havent
                seen any signs of your taking honors to justify
                the increased operating expenses; and that is bad
                business - a good deal like feeding his weight in
                corn to a scalawag steer that wont fat up. 
                I havent
                said anything about this before, as I trusted a
                good deal to your native common-sense to keep you
                from making a fool of yourself in the way that
                some of these young fellows who havent had
                to work for it do. But because I have sat tight,
                I dont want you to get it into your head
                that the old mans rich, and that he can
                stand it, because he wont stand it after
                you leave college. The sooner you adjust your
                spending to what your earning capacity will be,
                the easier they will find it to live together. 
                The only sure way
                that a man can get rich quick is to have it given
                to him or to inherit it. You are not going to get
                rich that way - at least, not until after you
                have proved your ability to hold a pretty
                important position with the firm; and, of course,
                there is just one place from which a man can
                start for that position with Graham & Co. It
                doesnt make any difference whether he is
                the son of the old man or of the cellar boss -
                that place is the bottom. And the bottom in the
                office end of this business is a seat at the
                mailing-desk with eight dollars every Saturday
                night.  
                I cant hand
                out any ready-made success to you. It would do
                you no good, and it would do the house harm.
                There is plenty of room at the top here, but
                there is no elevator in the building. Starting,
                as you do, with a good education, you should be
                able to climb quicker than the fellow who
                hasnt got it; but theres going to be
                a time when you begin at the factory when you
                wont be able to lick stamps so fast as the
                other boys at the desk. Yet the man who
                hasnt licked stamps isnt fit to write
                letters. Natural, that is the time when knowing
                whether the pie comes before the ice-cream, and
                how to run an automobile isnt going to be
                of any real use to you. 
                I simply mention
                these things because I am afraid your ideas as to
                the basis on which you are coming with the house
                have swelled up a little in the East. I can give
                you a start, but after that you will have to
                dynamite your way to the front by yourself. It is
                all with the man. I you gave some fellows a
                talent wrapped in a napkin to start with in
                business, they would swap the talent for a gold
                brick and lose the napkin; and there are others
                that you could start out with just a napkin, who
                would set up with it in the dry-goods business in
                a small way, and then coax the other
                fellows talent into it. 
                I have pride
                enough to believe that you have the right sort of
                stuff in you, but I want to see some of it come
                out. You will never make a good merchant of
                yourself by reversing the order in which the Lord
                decreed that we should proceed - learning the
                spending before the earning end of business. Pay
                day is always a month off for the spend-thrift,
                and he is never able to realize more than sixty
                cents on any dollar that comes to him. But a
                dollar is worth one hundred and six cents to a
                good business man, and he never spends the
                dollar. Its the man who keeps saving up and
                expenses down that buys an interest in the
                concern. That is where you are going to find
                yourself weak if your expense accounts dont
                lie; and they generally dont lie in that
                particular way, though Baron Munchausen was the
                first traveling man, and my drummers bills
                still show his influence. 
                I know that when a
                lot of young men get off by themselves, some of
                them think that recklessness with money brands
                them as good fellows, and that carefulness is
                meanness. That is the one end of a college
                education which is pure cussedness; and that is
                the one thing which makes nine business men out
                of ten hesitate to send their boys off to school.
                But on the other hand, that is the spot where a
                young man has the chance to show that he is not a
                lightweight. I know that a good many people say I
                am a pretty close proposition; that I make every
                hog which goes through my packing-house give up
                more lard than the Lord gave him gross weight;
                that I have improved on Nature to the extent of
                getting four hams out of an animal which began
                life with two; but you have lived with me long
                enough to know that my hand is usually in my
                pocket at the right time.  
                Now I want to say
                right here that the meanest man alive is the one
                who is generous with money that he has to had to
                sweat for, and that the boy who is a good fellow
                at some one elses expense would not work up
                into a first-class fertilizer. That same ambition
                to be known as a good fellow has crowded my
                office with second-rate clerks, and they always
                will be second-rate clerks. If you have it, hold
                it down until you have worked for a year. Then,
                if your ambition runs to hunching up all week
                over a desk, to earn eight dollars to blow on a
                few rounds of drinks for the boys on Saturday
                night, there is no objection to your gratifying
                it; for I will know that the Lord didnt
                intend you to be your own boss.  
                You know how I
                began - I was started off with a kick, but that
                proved a kick up, and to the end every one since
                has lifted me a little bit higher. I got two
                dollars a week, and slept under the counter, and
                you can bet I knew just how many pennies there
                were in each of those dollars, and how hard the
                floor was. That is what you have got to learn. 
                I remember when I
                was on the Lakes, our schooner was passing out
                through the draw at Buffalo when I saw little
                Bill Riggs, the butcher, standing up above me on
                the end of the bridge with a big roast of beef in
                his basket. They were a little short in the
                galley on that trip, so I called up to Bill and
                he threw the roast down to me. I asked him how
                much, and he yelled back, "about a
                dollar." That was mighty good beef, and when
                we struck Buffalo again on the return trip, I
                thought I would like a little more of it. So I
                went up to Bills shop and asked him for a
                piece of the same. But this time he gave me a
                little roast, not near so big as the other, and
                it was pretty tough and stringy. But when I asked
                him how much, he answered "about a
                dollar." He simply didnt have any
                sense of values, and thats the business
                mans sixth sense. Bill has always been a
                big, healthy, hard-working man, but to-day he is
                very, very poor. 
                The Bills
                aint all in the butcher business. Ive
                got some of them right now in my office, but they
                will never climb over the railing that separates
                the clerks from the executives. Yet if they would
                put in half the time thinking for the house that
                they give up to hatching out reasons why they
                ought to be allowed to overdraw their salary
                accounts, I couldnt keep them out of our
                private offices with a pole-ax, and I
                wouldnt want to; for they could double
                their salaries and my profits in a year. But I
                always lay it down as a safe proposition that the
                fellow who has to break open the babys bank
                toward the last of the week for car-fare
                isnt going to be any Russel Sage when it
                comes to trading with the old mans money.
                Hed punch my bank account as full of holes
                as a carload of wild Texans would a fool stockman
                that theyd got in a corner. 
                Now I know
                youll say that I dont understand how
                it is; that youve got to do as the other
                fellows do; and that things have changed since I
                was a boy. Theres nothing in it. Adam
                invented all the different ways in which a young
                man can make a fool of himself, and the college
                yell at the end of them is just a frill that
                doesnt change essentials. The boy who does
                anything just because the other fellows do it is
                apt to scratch a poor mans back all his
                life. Hes the chap thats buying wheat
                at ninety-seven cents the day before the market
                breaks. They call him the country in
                the market reports, but the citys full of
                him. Its the fellow who has the spunk to
                think and act for himself, and sells short when
                prices hit the high C and the house is standing
                on its hind legs yelling for more, that sits in
                the directors meetings when he gets on
                toward forty. 
                Weve got an
                old steer out at the packing-house that stands
                around at the foot of the runway leading up to
                the killing pens, looking for all the world like
                one of the village fathers sitting on the cracker
                box before the grocery - sort of sad-eyed, dreamy
                old cuss - always has two or three straws from
                his cud sticking out of the corner of his mouth.
                You never saw a steer that looked as if he took
                less interest in things. But by and by the boys
                drive a bunch of steers toward him, or cows
                maybe, if were canning, and then
                youll see Old Abe move off up that runway,
                sort of beckoning the bunch after him with that
                wicked old stump of a tail of his, as if there
                was something mighty interesting to steers at the
                top, and something that every Texan and Colorado,
                raw from the prairies, ought to have a look at to
                put a metropolitan finish on him. Those steers
                just naturally follow along on up that runway and
                into the killing pens. But just as they get to
                the top, Old Abe, someways, gets lost in the
                crowd, and he isnt among those present when
                the gates are closed and the real trouble begins
                for his new friends.  
                I never saw a
                dozen boys together that there wasnt an Old
                Abe among them. If you find your crowd following
                him, keep away from it. There are times when
                its safest to be lonesome. Use a little
                common-sense, caution and conscience. You can
                stock a store with those three commodities, when
                you get enough of them. But youve got to
                begin getting them young. They aint
                catching after you toughen up a bit.  
                You neednt
                write me if you feel yourself getting them. The
                symptoms will show in your expense account.
                Good-by; lifes too short to write letters
                and New Yorks calling me on the wire. 
                Your affectionate
                father, 
                John Graham.  
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